just a reminder not to bring your kinks into public, especially with BDSM. that stuff stays in the bedroom. like queerness, BDSM is nothing to be ashamed of. UNLIKE queerness, BDSM is inherently sexual. please don’t get someone to chain you up to a bike rack or tug you around on a leash near taco bell. sex positivity is good, but make sure you’re still practicing sex safety - and that includes making sure children don’t get exposed to stuff that’s legitimately confusing and hard to understand!
also, for survivors of abuse?? don’t do this because survivors are in public spaces? because you have no way of knowing who has or has not survived an abusive relationship and by exposing them to things that traumatized them you are actively BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND HARMING THEM? because not being “ashamed of your kink” is not an excuse to throw it in people’s faces?
because forcibly involving or exposing unconsenting people to explicitly sexual acts without permission is sexual abuse
bolding for truth
bystanders have not consented. Bystanders have not consented. BYSTANDERS HAVE NOT CONSENTED TO BE PART OF YOUR SEX LIFE, SO YOU DON’T INCLUDE THEM IN IT.
It is not edgy or cool or interesting to make non-consenting, non-interested people uncomfortable with your kinky shit
(Source: momma-rose, via catsandthrones)
someone turn me into a painting or a poem i’m sick of being a person
(Source: nicola-blank, via catsandthrones)
does anyone else get insanely romantically frustrated, like i know sexual frustration is a thing but sometimes i get super intense cravings for soft kisses or make out sessions or cuddling naps or things like that and it’s way more frustrating to me than sexual cravings
IT’S IN WORDS
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Friends all having babies but here I am just trying to find the best Lucy to find myself with.
That’s it that’s the whole show.
How long did this take to make?
oh my god
I want to make this my ringtone
I love this show so much I dedicated myself to watch the whole thing twice
(Source: thursday, via unescapable)
That’s it that’s the whole show.
How long did this take to make?
oh my god
I want to make this my ringtone
I love this show so much I dedicated myself to watch the whole thing twice
(Source: thursday, via unescapable)
I keep drifting through this in and out state of mind lately. Like I watch my days go by in a third person perspective and it’s driving me absolutely nuts to dwell on.
I know this is literally ridiculous but
I wish people didn’t get so mad about you not texting them back lol, like 80% of the time I don’t text back it’s just cos I don’t have the mental energy to engage lol
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